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February 10, 2016

7 Ways To Spend The Day Self Pampering On Valentine’s Day…

7 Ways to Self Pamper

Valentine’s Day is less than a week away and not everyone will be celebrating this day with a significant other. But don’t fret, I’ve listed a few ideas on how to spend the day (or any other day) self-pampering yourself.

  1. Spend the day at a spa
    Treat yourself to a well deserved facial, massage, and a mani and Pedi.
  2. Book a room at a hotel
    Let someone else do all the work for the day. Order room service, take a bubble bath and binge-watch your favorite tv shows or movies.
  3. Indulge in your favorite meal/dessert
    Spend the day enjoying your favorite meal at a fancy restaurant.
  4. Get dressed up and go to brunch
    Put on your cutest outfit and start your day off with a nice meal.
  5. Buy yourself flowers
    Buy your favorite flowers, put them in a cute vase, and set them in your favorite spot somewhere in your home. 
  6. Go to the makeup counter and get a mini makeover
    Visit one of your favorite department stores and make a stop at the many makeup counters. Try on some of the season’s hottest colors and get a new look. Don’t forget to take a ton of selfies.
  7. Throw a cocktail party
    Invite over a few of your friends that don’t have plans and enjoy some adult beverages, appetizers, and desserts.

Whether you’re single or not, self-pampering can help relieve stress and provide much-needed relaxation. 

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  • Allison Jones
    February 10, 2016

    You had me at spend the day at the spa! These are great ideas. I also love the idea of treating myself to brunch.

    LiveLifeWell,
    Allison

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      Allison Jones
      February 10, 2016

      I’ve been meaning to go to brunch, I haven’t been in so long.

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  • Kemkem
    February 12, 2016

    I’m not really a Valentine’s Day celebrant. I am very much low maintenance. That being said, l celebrate myself whenever l want :-). Spa, brunch..whatever..when the urge hits..there we go. Have a great day.

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  • Donna Shana
    February 12, 2016

    Such great ideas for self pampering. Although it wasn’t Vday, I did spend the day at the spa last weekend, and my hubby and I have other plans this weekend.

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  • Jay | Relaxed Thairapy
    February 12, 2016

    I have grown to love spa days. I get facials often and love the me time.

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  • Kara
    February 12, 2016

    Great ideas!! I’m always down for the spa, eating and drinks so these are right up my alley!

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  • Porshia La'Shae
    February 12, 2016

    I can appreciate everything listed and I’m married with kids. I know a night in a hotel room alone would be the best valentines day gift ever. 🙂

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  • Shantel Collins
    February 13, 2016

    These are all excellent ideas. Especially the hotel room for when you just want to get away. The experience makes it feel like you’re on a vacation!!!

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  • Christine @MomsNCharge
    February 14, 2016

    I had really great intentions on doing a lot of these things. LOL Good thing is I have a few work trips coming up that I will be able to sneak in some self-pamering time.

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  • Femi
    February 15, 2016

    I wish I could’ve spent Valentine’s Day doing any of these things! However, you said something really important at the end of your post that really resonated with me “self pampering can relieve stress and help with relaxation.” I have to remind myself to just relax!

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  • Tyra
    February 15, 2016

    I have to say, I did a spa day yesterday and it was magical. I told myself no work at all and took a much needed me day. I need to do this more often LOL.

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  • Kim
    February 15, 2016

    I love your suggestions. All of them are great ideas for a single woman or busy momma that needs a break!

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  • Valerie robinson
    February 15, 2016

    I vote spa!!!! Love all of these ideas!

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  • Anitra Durand-Allen
    February 17, 2016

    Hubby and I don’t really do Valentine’s Day, but these are awesome ideas for the future…by myself! Celebrating me is always an expression of love.

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  • Amanda
    February 17, 2016

    These are great tips! I love the idea of mini-make over. It’s the perfect time freshen up and experiment with a new look for Spring. I just may take this suggestion even though Valentine’s Day has passed. I must have done something this week worthy of a little pampering. lol

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  • Amanda
    February 17, 2016

    I love the idea of getting a mini makeover! It’s the perfect time to experiment with a new look for spring anyway and always super fun to play in new make up.

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